I spoke to my GP about my concerns 2 years ago and they referred me for ADHD screening. It was a very lengthy ‘test’ covering my childhood and my relationships with my partner and parents.
After submitting that form, I was strictly told never to contact the department as it would delay my process. I was told my wait time would be a minimum of 3 months.
After waiting 1.5 years, I contacted them and they told me there had been a mistake, and immediately arranged someone to interview me on a Saturday, which I already took as a bad sign. No one wants to work Saturdays.
The nurse who interviewed me basically asked the exact same questions from the initial form, only focused on the childhood section. The problem is, I have a severe lack of memory of my childhood. I specifically stated this both on the form and to the interviewer, and it was ignored (because it wasn’t on the form). He eventually concluded that I don’t have ADHD because I wasn’t showing symptoms in childhood. When I asked what information he was basing this decision on, he couldn’t answer. He also admitted he wasn’t allowed to say anything beyond what the results were telling him to say. After the interview, I requested more information and just got an email saying I’d been discharged.
Honestly, I’m not chasing a diagnosis at any cost, but I think I deserve better treatment than this. I really don’t know who to trust at this point, and I don’t know where to look, as the ADHD UK information is extremely scattered and most of it ends up as a giant list that includes everything for everyone.
My GP doesn’t know how to help either, as they can only refer me back to the 2-year waiting list. Would really appreciate a few pointers on what I should be doing at this point.